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Self-esteem and success

Self-esteem refers to the perception we have about our own worth and value. There are many ways to increase your self-esteem which is often related to success. The starting point for improving the consideration that you have of yourself is to get to be aware of  your strong points.

One of the posts of the blog Live your true story  indicates 7 easy exercises to boost our self-esteem:

  1. List 10 things the you love about yourself
  2. List 10 skills you possess
  3. List 5 achievements which you are proud of
  4. List 3 occasions where you have overcome adversity
  5. List 5 people who have helped you
  6. List 5 people whom you have helped
  7. List 50 things you appreciate about your life

Read the full post here

 

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Your future-self

People like to weigh their next decisions in three contexts:

  1. Learning from the past
  2. what it will do to the present
  3. how will it benefit the future

It is wise to take all of these contexts into account: persistently planning ahead makes life so much easier in the long run.

Here are 5 useful tips to increase the success of your future-self:

4. Make a 10 year plan

5. Gain perspective

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Do you consider yourself to be a confident person? Do you trust your abilities? Do you even know what those abilities are? Having self confidence is probably one of the most important aspects of your personality you can develop on your journey of self development.

Lack of self confidence is often the origin of anxiety and preoccupations when we are faced with everyday challenges, whether they may be big or small.
It stops us from building meaningful relationships, from truly pursuing our dreams, from speaking our mind, from taking risks, in essence from being ourselves. That is why it is so important, not only for our professional life, but also for our private life, to find those tools and strategies that might help us in building self confidence and finding our place in this world.

Marcus Aurelius offers us 10 tips to build our  self confidence:

  1. Focus on building your character
  2. Practice Self-Acceptance
  3. Focus on your thoughts
  4. Make a plan and stop thinking
  5. Keep your word
  6. Take ownership of your actions
  7. Don’t speak too much about yourself
  8. Remind yourself of death
  9. Ignore the naysayers
  10. Have an evening confidence ritual

Be sure to watch the full video from Philosophies for Life for an in-depth explanation of each of these points and to be inspired by this great man!

Inspired by Ratan Tata

Ratan Naval Tata (born 28 December 1937) is an Indian businessman, industrial and  philanthropist of great success. He is much more than just the former chairman of the global business conglomerate Tata Sons, indeed his world famous personality and his success story have inspired millions of people.

Here is a look back at a selection of his most inspiring words that will help you set your goals and motivate yourself.

1. “Don’t educate your children to be rich. Educate them to be happy. So when they grow up they will know the value of things, not the price.”

2. “Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise you have to eat your medicines as your food.”

3. ” The One who loves you will never leave you because even if there are hundreds reasons to give up he/she will find one reason to hold on.”

4. ” There is a lot of difference between human being and being human. A Few understand it.”

5. “If you want to walk fast, walk alone. But if you want to walk far, walk together.”

6. ” You are loved when your are born. You will be loved when you die. In between you have to manage…!”

7. “Six best doctors in the world:

  • Sunlight
  • Rest
  • Exercise
  • Diet
  • Self Confidence
  • Friends

Maintain them in all stages of life and enjoy healthy life”

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The importance of humility

Nowadays, self-confidence is considered to be one of the key skills one should master to be successful, especially at work. However, it doesn’t mean that on your workplace you should be arrogant, or exceed your own limits, showing off more than you are demanded to. In fact, there is a difference between self-confidence and certainty, and every professional should be humble enough to know that.

Sanjay Sanghoee explains the importance of humility at work, considered both as a moral value and as a form of intellectual honesty. In order to improve your skills, and to create a better working environment, you should, first of all, learn how to be humble. Some advice could be useful:

  1. Think twice before acting;
  2. Ask plenty of questions;
  3. Admit your mistakes and avoid being defensive;
  4. Create your own professional goals.

Read the full article here.

Humilty

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Thinking Skills

This free e-book Self-Confidence at Work by Kasia Lyczkowska, downloadable at bookboon.com approaches confidence as a skill to be acquired. Each of the six chapters of the book focuses its attention on different contributors to confidence. No matter what your current level of confidence, application of each chapter separately or all of them simultaneously, will bring you to the next level of soaring and going for success you deserve.

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