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Top Five Reasons People Fear Being A Leader

Top Five Reasons People Fear Being A Leader written by Denis G. Mclaughlin, President of Leadership GPS, is an interesting article concerning  fear.

Denis G. Mclaughlin tells us that being afraid is one of the benefits and at the same time detriments to the human condition. For example, this is a good thing when it protects us from making harmful mistakes; on the other side, it is a bad thing when it prevents us from achieving success to our full capability.

Accepting the responsibility of leadership is one of those fears that some have developed over their years of experience.

After this he provides us the top five reasons some fear being a leader:

  1. I am afraid to fail
  2. I have failed before
  3. I am not a born leader
  4. I don’t know enough about leader
  5. I don’t know everything my team does

Read the full article at: http://goo.gl/EHY3f

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Saying “No” in 6 easy steps

Sometimes we have a hard time telling others “No.” Unfortunately, leaving it unsaid can become very costly for you. You lose time to do the things you really want, or need, to do. And you may even feel resentful towards the other person and yourself.

Telling others that you can’t acquiesce to their every request doesn’t have to be difficult.
Martina McGowan in the article “Saying ‘No’ in 6 steps” published on her blog Martina’s story provides us a few ideas you can put into use:

  1. Explain
  2. Delay
  3. Consider it
  4. Know what you want and need
  5. Suggest an alternative
  6. But…

Read full article on: http://martinamcgowan.com/2012/11/no-6-easy-steps/

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Key strategies for effective Virtual Team Management

Project managers spend most of their time managing tasks and resources on projects. This is all true whether the project is being handled remotely or if your team is sitting in the same room with you.  It is just that the skills needed to effectively manage tend to skew more heavily on effective communication and the remote aspect can invite some challenges that don’t necessarily exist in the co-location project environment.

To manage a virtual team, it should be given more attention to six key strategies:

1)       Hold meetings regularly, not sporadically

Keep every meeting.  It can be very tempting to skip what might seem like a meaningless meeting.  Even if there is nothing new to report, it is still important to have those touch points with your team to keep them fully focused and engaged.  Even if your team status call is only 5 minutes long – you still need to have it.

2)       Streamline communications

Consolidate and prioritize communications using email, texting, blogging and staying in touch and being personal. Communications of an important nature should be cohesive and never delivered in fragmentary pieces that have to be pieced together by the receiver. Mutually assess the communication preferences of yourself and your team members to develop a communication plan.

3)       Be a good listener

When you are out of easy reach and you are tasked with managing the performance of others it is easy to get into the trap of needing to transmit lots of information.  Do not forget the listening part and always be sure to keep an open mind. Be present and try to enter the perspective of those speaking to you. This will help you ask effective questions and identify what direction to go with your own needs and agenda. You might be very pleasantly surprised at how much more information you get from your team this way.

4)       Manage deliverables, not activities

In the virtual project world, it is difficult to stay focused – and keep your team focused – on the project deliverables.  Do not get too bogged down in managing the minute details because the distance you have between you and those that are performing those activities make that type of micro managing even more difficult.  Focus on the higher-level tasks and the overall deliverables and expect your team to perform.

5)       Know your team members and manage accordingly

Every employee is different. Mobile workers make it easier for managers to take a more personalized approach in how they work and interact with members of their team. Understanding what enables each employee to perform at his or her best is the most important responsibility of a manager.

6)       Leverage technology

Today, the list available tools is endless, choose what suits best for your team and project.  Choose a solid tool – like a web-based PM scheduling, status and document sharing tool for teams as an example – and ensure that your project team know how to use it.  Putting a web-based solution in the hands of the project team can definitely make project manager’s job easier as task progress update responsibility can be delegated to those actually doing the work.

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Achieving the best results

The best results are achieved by using the right amount of effort in the right place at the right time. And this right amount is usually less than we think we need. In other words, the less unnecessary effort you put into learning, the more successful you’ll be… the key to faster learning is to use appropriate effort. Greater effort can exacerbate faulty patterns of action. Doing the wrong thing with more intensity rarely improves the situation. Learning something new often requires us to unlearn something old.
Tony Buzan

Tony Buzan is the inventor of MindMapping

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Assertive communication

Assertive behaviour allows us to maintain effectively our point of view, without prevarication of or suppleness to the counterpart’s position. An assertive way of communication goes beyond the perfect balance between two poles: passivity and aggressiveness. It involves the conversation partner and aims at finding a common solution.

Among other things, to achieve assertive communication it is essential to:

– Listen proactively (not avoiding eye contact, using gestures to express approval);
– Summarize and reformulate what has been said by the interlocutor;
– Share one’s point of view;
– Confirm that there is a relationship with the interlocutor that goes beyond the issue under discussion;
– Show empathy and propose to solve together.

Many more useful gimmicks are available at http://bit.ly/VYb147 with a selected bibliography. Now, try to put them into practice!

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The Power of Body Language

In her TED Talk Social psychologist Amy Cuddy shows that body language affects how others see us and it may also change how we see ourselves.

Amy Cuddy’s research on body language reveals that we can change other people’s perceptions — and even our own body chemistry — simply by changing body positions.

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